Hrithik Roshan. The name takes me back to my 16 year old self being unable to put a face on the guy in my dreams. Humans cannot dream new faces. Then came the blockbuster hit Kaho Na Pyar Hain. Lo!! There he is dancing on the silver screen, Prince Charming...Not just for me, I can safely say HR is the heart throb for a generation of young girls. Ofcourse, showbiz abounds with beautiful people and he's not the only one.
His marriage to Suzanne followed his successful debut. They looked like a normal Bollywood couple with their share of linkups and rumours. I refrain from judging these people because the two alone know what they've gone through.
Having a spouse in showbiz surrounded by good-looking people isn't easy. But infidelity is not an accident, it's a choice.
'Marriage is a gamble!'
'Marriage is a compromise, you lose some, you gain some.'
Relationships are not perfect all the time. They have highs and lows and they evolve. The same applies to marriage too. But the institution of marriage is a social necessity, without which our society would be in utter chaos.
Marriage is not a fairytale. It's where two people share their happiness and face hardships together, after the honeymoon is over. Mutual respect and trust are the foundation of a lifelong bond.
'Why mars and Venus collide' is a book I wish I had read before marriage or soon after. The single most important point the author makes is not to pin your happiness on your spouse. Do your own thing, have your own circle of friends etc and share it with your spouse. It's your responsibility to cheer and support your spouse to be the best he/she can be.
Marriage is about falling in love with the same person every day!!
The major culprits in marital disharmony are lack of good communication, proximity to friends of opposite sex, infidelity, emotional infidelity, finances and extended family issues.
Once you have children, you are parents first and their well-being is priority. I wish HR, Suzanne and their lovely kids,the very best of days.
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